Relationship - Good or bad?

I was kind of wondering if going into a relationship is a good thing for a teenager. Lets not talk about those problems like couldn't resists temptation and got into doing things that are stupid or the results for deteriorating.

I have a girl whom I love a lot and we were together for 9months. Her mum had forbid her to be together with me and that she tried to squeeze in her precious time to be with me. But she went on finding a new guy and that was when we broke off. I reckoned this is parts and parcel of life and I've learned to go on with it and had learnt my lesson.

My friend who have a relationship now is troubled because his girlfriend would want him to pay for her needs and wants and when he couldn't afford, she will be angry.

So is having a relationship a good thing or a bad thing since there's more corns than pros? I reckoned it's up to the individual on how you would want the relationship to be viewed. As for me, it's a good thing as I grew from it and mature.

Age

I'm in an age of rebellious-ness. Rebellious against my family for the freedom to go out till late into wee hours. Freedom to have the rights to speak in the family. Freedom to have my 'human' rights against those who scolds me. Freedom to have the 'passport' towards the age of adulthood. Freedom to have a girlfriend and bringing her home.

I'm in an age of having friends as the top priority. Whenever I need help, friends would be the first to come to my mind. Whenever I have trouble, friends would be the first I confided to. Whenever I'm 'lost', friends would be the first I thought of as the 'light' towards 'darkness'. Whenever I succeed in anything, friends would be the one celebrating my success and happiness.

I'm in an age of choices that would affect my future. Any childish-ness would not be tolerated. Decision I've made today, would affect the results tomorrow. Such as not studying hard enough, being with bad companions and get into deep trouble.

I'm in an age of rising temptation such as underage sex, pickpocketing, hurling vulgarities, fighting and challenging authorities.

This all results as I'm in an age of a teenager.